I'm new and just looking for friends (and maybe more if we get on). I'm not bad looking, fit-ish, very strong and 6 ft tall, but with a quiet and listening perality (in my very humble opinion). I would consider myself straight, if it wasn't for my appreciation of very beautiful men ;-) and that messes up my 'straight' theory up all-together and I realise that :-) I've tried a few meetings, but as you know doubt realise, talking, messaging etc is one thing, but meeting a real living stranger is another and I 'mostly' bottle out. The conflict of wanting to be a bad boy, but also having a soul, heart and respect of another, do not mix. I do like going to 'those sort of pubs' and like the looks, (and ego boost) and would say I could be with anyone -if I wished it (but that isn't saying much in a gay bar), if wasn't for my inherent shyness stopping things going any further. The per has to be very very good looking to overcome this hurdle! Or else I get completely mangled, so it is a no win scenario! If you get to see my 'friends' list, it is full of very able and good looking men. I'm working at it, and gym days allowing, I will fit into that group just as well as they do! Happy living to all!

My Ideal Person Someone to maybe go out on the town with, a friend to do those gay bars, a gym partner, or even a partner partner, if they they were interesting and very sexy enough! (Never had a gay partner and have no idea how you go about it).

I'm using this and a few more less racy sites to see who is about. and interesting (and pretty too).