Introduction Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I'm a normal and sane 44 y/o man(constantly told I look 30ish), who has a voracious and varied sexual appetite for adventurous and kinky sex. My friends would describe my perality as stable, down-to-earth, very active, stubborn, strong-willed, outgoing, extremely fun-loving, the party organizer, driven, sarcastic, good sense of humor, and totally living the "carpe diem" philosophy (in a responsible way obviously). My past lovers would describe me as a very attentive lover who's first priority is pleasing his partner before himself. I've also been told that I'm a great kisser. Of course, I will not list too much peral information on here, but I can tell you that I am a clean, disease and drug free individual, who is fit and fairly attractive. I have face pix available and will send them to you if the situation is right and I feel comfortable. Which leads me to the next point. Discretion is of the utmost importance and you can rest assured that I will respect yours as well. As a note to any couples out there that are playing together. You are perhaps my favorite scenario and if it puts your minds at ease, I do have some experience being in your shoes. My ex-wife and I used to play with others in the past and I found it highly enjoyable, especially watching her with other men and women. My point is that I know the frustrations that you're probably experiencing in trying to find respectable, trustworthy, discreet, and "normal" males to play with. Please rest assured that we went through the same frustations and now because of it, I feel that I can handle the situation of meeting and getting to know a couple better than a man who has never been in our shoes before. It's all about a low-key, no pressure approach to things that makes everyone involved comfortable with the situation. Ladies, if you're on here by yourselves let's just be brutally honest shall we? You basically have the pick of the litter. For every one of you, there's ten single men. Why should you consider getting to know me over the other nine? How can I say this and still come across as humble? I suppose I offer a stable and well-rounded package (no pun intended, really). I'm not a 10 in the looks category, but I'm certainly not a 5 either and I'm often told that I'm attractive. I'm not a psychopathic drugged-up loser that you'd have to worry about your safety with. I'm fairly intelligent, well-groomed, and can carry on a conversation. To be completely honest, I'm not hung like an elephant, but I'm definitely of above average size and as you can tell from my profile pictures, I like to keep things well trimmed and neat. Perhaps most importantly ladies, while I do consider myself the "typical man", I can also appreciate a little bit of romance and sexual tension in this type of scenario or encounter. In other words, while hopping straight into bed is certainly okay with me, preceeding it with dinner, drinks, flirting, etc. makes it all the more enjoyable. As far as my likes and dislikes, I have more likes than dislikes. I'm extremely open-minded and uninhibited sexually so you can read that to mean as you see fit. However, I'm not into pain (other than perhaps light), scat, or animals. Those are really the only true off limit topics for me. I do have a nice place to host if the situation were to develope to that level. If we decide to meet up for dinner/drinks/coffee or whatever, I assure you that I will not "flake" and will show up on time. I am aware that many times that too is a problem for people. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile and best of luck to everyone. Again, if you're interested in further getting to know each other and would like some face pix, just ask me.other pics availible too

My Ideal Person I am looking for something a little different. I am bored with the same old I'm so hot you can't have me type of girls. I would love to find either a cougar or a young lady looking to be as bad as she can be with an older guy. I would also like to find something different. Either small breasted girls or very large breasted. Maybe an ethnic lady. Not quite sure. I just love reading about these ladies who say they can't get enough and then when they meet they want to stop after only an hour or so. So please if you have something different to offer or can go all night, then I am interested. Couples are very welcome. BE REAL THOUGH!!!My idea person would be a a female who loves to dress sexy, loves to be pampered and loves to get and give lots of attention. You must be a very respectful, loyal lover who totally enjoys sex and is willing to try new things. You must be drug and disease free and willing to prove it. I will also consider couples who enjoy the same things.She must be openminded, no taboos and willing to experiment

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, My parents' front lawn, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Latex, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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