I am married and fine with that. Bit bored of married life after nearly 30 years, but this is 'do no harm' exercise. I am reaably fit since I have a smallholding to keep me active (that's land not a peral attribute!). Still have my hair even though this site makes me tear it out sometimes. I have a broad taste when it comes to women. Everyone is different and it really is down to attitude rather than looks. I enjoy good food and drink as well as intelligent conversation so am put off by bad spelling and text-speak. Definitely not here for quickies and it is not likely that I will be up for any meets.

My Ideal Person Someone in a similar position. ie married/attached. Long term friendship is a bonus, but not looking for a lover. Not really looking to meet, want to chat/email/cam with over 40's women who are looking for same. Age & looks not important, but courtesy and intelligence is. Can be located anywhere in the world but must be English-speaking

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Elbow, Radiohead, Neil Young, Joni Mitchell

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
we strip together and jump in the pool. I sit her on the pool
side and use my tongue to find her clit and spend a long time
making her cum

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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