Im 62,divorced,have custody of my 9 year old grand . Ive had her by myself going on 4 years now, and I think I'm doing a darn good job with her. Im here because I gave up the bar scene many years ago.I like sex but I dont feel thats the most important thing in a relationship. Communication,trust, loyalty,they are important too.I prefer one on one sex,,but I wouldnt mind another female once in a while. Im pretty much open to anything except another guy, im straight,not gay.