Standard Members can view my profile and contact me. I am looking for someone who is looking for a friend with benefits and wants to have a good time. I want someone fun and open minded who just wants to have a good time with no strings, heaviness, or expectations. I am not looking for a one night stand so much as a person I can be friends with and also enjoy each others bodies. I would like someone who enjoys the sensual side of sex. I enjoy touching, kissing, giving massages, kissing, letting my hands caress your skin and finding out where you like to be touched. There are more parts to a woman besides a vagina and that includes a mind. For me sex is more than just intercourse, its a full experience involving mind, body, and spirit. I want to know what makes you tic, I want to explore you and find out. Both in the bedroom and outside it, That’s what makes it fun for me. Now having said all that please understand that these are long term goals. I don't expect to send you a e-mail and have you show up naked and ready to fuck. I expect to get to know you a little by sending some e-mails on here first, then we can move to IM or phone calls, and by the time we have a first date if it ends in a kiss I will consider it a success. If it ends in sex I will be shocked and surprised because I don't put those kind of expectations on women. I treat people with respect, I expect the same, I've found it goes a long way :) \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\****WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.****

My Ideal Person I would like a woman that is not afraid to be herself. If you have a above average adventurous side that would be great too. I believe in open communication with my friends, and that includes letting me know when I have fucked up, and when I've done something to make you feel special. On the sexual side of life this applies as well, if I'm doing something and it is doing nothing for you I expect you to say so. My ego is not so fragile that you telling me that what I'm doing is not fun for you will crush it. I will just try something else. I have a good imagination and no end to ideas, some of these will work and some won't, but experimenting is half the fun. Outside the bedroom I want someone to have fun with. I would like to go skiing. I would like to go stay at a hot springs over the weekend. In fact having someone who likes to get out of town for the weekend and go have fun somewhere is important to me. I also want someone to go the movies with and take out to dinner. I also like to spend some nights sitting at home doing very little, My job is the most boring job on the planet and sometimes it just sucks the fun out of me, but overall I'm happy with my life and I have fun, I would like someone to have fun with.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
John Denver, Jimmy Buffet, Counting Crows, Lady Gaga.
Metalica, Flogging Molly, Irish Rovers

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really, I can think of a bunch of stars I think are attractive.
But I don't know enough about them to get a good fantasy
going.

View more of longhairkit's responses