It's a new year, and I thought it was high time for a profile overhaul. I'm a 35y/o professional guy, divorced for a few years now and looking to take 2012 by the horns and have some fun being single. I had a rather dull, monogamous 20s and early 30s, and now I'm ready to broaden my sexual horizons and see what and who is out there. My life's too busy right now for me to pursue a real relationship, but my libido has been in overdrive lately. I really think what I want right now is a friend or two with benefits.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for some fun women (or maybe couples), probably 25-45ish, to have some fun with. Around Colorado Springs would be nice, but work takes me to Denver usually at least once a week, so I don't mind the trip that much.

I'd like a FWB-type situation, as I'm a firm believer that sex gets more awesome the more you sync up with another person. With familiarity comes trust, and hopefully with that trust we can explore whatever kinky, freaky things come to mind. Things I never got to try in my relatively dull married life - threesomes or moresomes, a little roll-playing, anal, playing on camera on Casual Encounters, whatever we're both down with. Tell me what your fantasies are and I'll tell you more.

So, a special friend or two I can get together with when the urge strikes either of us would be great. If you're looking for a fun guy who's got it together and can take care of your needs as well, drop me a flirt or email. We can trade a few emails, then meet up for drinks sometime and see if we click. From there, the sky's the limit.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Aerosmith, Dire Straits/Mark Knoppfler, Clint Black,
AC/DC, Barenaked Ladies, Alan Parsons (Project

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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